Torn & Taught

Daughters of Defiance: The Mentorship

A Boudoir Mentorship for Photographers Who Refuse the Male Gaze

Core Statement:
Daughters of Defiance is a mentorship for intimate portraiture photographers who want to create work that is ethical, embodied, and unapologetically their own. This is not about trends or tactics. It's about reclaiming authorship over how bodies are seen, held, and remembered. 
The Oath:
We do not soften our work to be palatable.
We do not borrow aesthetics without asking why.
We do not confuse intimacy with access. 

We create with consent.
We price with integrity.
We look back. 

I will not teach you how to copy a look. I’ll teach you how to build a voice, book clients, and hold space without burning out or selling bullshit. This mentorship is for intimate portraiture photographers who want to shoot with intention, not imitation.

We were never meant to be quite.
This is not a pose list. This is a lineage.

❋ Who is this for:
  • Beginner to intermediate photographers

  • Women drawn to boudoir for empowerment, not the male gaze

  • Creatives who struggle with confidence, pricing, boundaries, or visibility

  • Photographers who feel called to meaning

❋ Pillars of Daughters of Defiance
  • Chapter I: Inheritance

  • Chapter II: Consent as Craft

  • Chapter III: The Defiant Gaze

  • Chapter IV: The Unedited Body

  • Chapter V: The Price of Fire

  • Chapter VI: Visibility Without Obedience

❋ Formats
  • 1:1 Mentorship

  • Workshops

  • Shadow Day/Shoot-Along

❋ Why I am different
  • I will be teaching presence, power and how to practice with integrity

  • The focus is not on posing, presents, and profits

A person wearing orange lingerie with matching thigh straps, sitting or lying down with legs bent, in a room with wooden furniture and warm lighting.

WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT

This is not traditional boudoir education!

I will not be teaching scripts. I will teach presence. Empowerment is not a product I can sell. I will not optimize algorithms over ethics. Intimacy does not mean access. Daughters of Defiance exists because how we photograph bodies matters.

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THE FRACTURE

If you have ever wondered whether boudoir could be more than aesthetics, you are in the right place!

I got to the point where i was tired of boudoir feeling hollow. I was tired of looking at others work and trying to copy their work (with credit). I grew tired of just posing and shooting without intention. I felt the weight of responsibility when holding someone’s body and story.

WHO THIS IS FOR/NOT FOR

This is for you if you are a beginner or intermediate photographer. If you want to shoot boudoir ethically and intentionally. If you value consent, autonomy, and authorship. And finally, if you are ready to unlearn what no longer fits.

This is not for you if you want quick presents and copy-paste posing. If you are chasing volume over meaning. If you want a formula, instead of a voice. Or if you aren’t willing to examine power dynamics.

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WHAT YOU WILL WALK AWAY WITH

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WHAT YOU WILL WALK AWAY WITH *

Daughters of Defiance will leave you with a clear creative identity. It will help you create language for consent-forward direction. We will create a sustainable pricing structure together. You will leave with confidence in how you hold space and stronger boundaries with your clients.

I will not teach you to become me. I will teach you to become unmistakably yourself.

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Daughters of Defiance: The Mentorship

Investment & Application

Note: Because of the nature of this work, this mentorship is application-based. Payment plans are available - minimum $150/month


  • Price: $1000 (Travel not included)

  • Observe a real client session and shoot along side if comfortable (With consent)

  • Pre-shoot meeting to set intentions

  • Live commentary on choices - lighting, language, pace

  • Post-shoot breakdown

  • Optional editing walk through (Add-on)

SHADOW DAY / SHOOT-ALONG
The Witness

  • Price: $350

  • 2-3 hour live workshop

  • In-Person

  • Themed focused workshops

  • Post-Workshop Luncheon

WORKSHOPS
The Assembly

  • Price: $2,800

  • 4 Private 90-minute sessions (Can be spread over 6-8 weeks)

  • Deep brand + portfolio audit

  • Consent language and session flow guidance

  • Pricing + boundaries recalibration

  • Ongoing voice-note support between sessions

  • Branding Session with Randi Rae Photography

1:1 MENTORSHIP
The Lineage

You already know this work can be different.
This is your invitation to make it so.

Apply today. Start tomorrow.

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